MTSMan, you are well aware that you're parents' treatment of you is the consequence of the org's perverted dogmas and practices.
Whatever you do, don't return evil for evil, otherwise you/we are no better than the deluded self-righteous ones. Keep the door open - while you get on with your own life.
I have recently been renounced as a family member and declared as "dead" by two self-righteous J.W. family members. My crime? I sent them factual media information about the org's Brooklyn sell-off, the use of a showbiz JW (Mr. King) in the R.C. video, as well as their use of a "worldly" company's music as soundtrack for the resurrection video. I was accused of saying "negative things" about the org!!! (not about God/Jesus/Bible)
In many J.W.'s minds, Matthew 12:32 now reads, "....whoever speaks a word against the Son of man, it will be forgiven him; but whoever speaks against the organization, it will not be forgiven him, no, not in this system of things nor in that to come."
The unforgiveable sin has now been "clarified" in the J.W. psyche.
Hang in there, and be ready to forgive their blindness - if requested.